Danny Zeng | December 11, 2013
Recently I went and watched the movie Philomena with a friend during Thanksgiving break (I know…sometimes I wonder what’s wrong with me also but hey it’s Judy Dench! Not gonna lie but loved the Best Exotic Marigold Hotel…anyways). The story was so touching that I went ahead and did a search on the movie that is supposedly inspired by “a true story.” Sure enough, sadly, the story turned out to be quite true. Despite the fact that the director had decided to make Martin Sixsmith, a former BBC correspondent, darker than he is in real life, the story came together through a fateful road-trip relationship developed between Martin and Philomena in search for Anthony, her lost son. Not to spoil the movie, but here is a brief summary: Philomena Lee was a Catholic nun living in a form of indentured servitude to a local convent back in 1950s Ireland. She gave birth to a child out of wedlock, a phenonmenon that was not to be tolerated by the Catholic sisters. Her son was born in the convent and was taken care of with the other orphans until a rich couple adopted him. Philomena at the time had signed away her parental rights to the Church. With only a grainy black-and-white wallet-sized picture, Philomena had thought about and searched for his lost son for fifty years. The New York Times did a story on Philomena recently. Most of the story happened to be true, with the exception that Philomena did not actually came to the U.S. with Martin to look for her son. This was the picture of Anthony (aka Michael Hess) gather by the paper. When the Guardian published the story in 2009, Philomena could only muster her energy to remark, “It [signing Anthony/Michael away and concealing the truth for so long] is the biggest regret of my life and I have to bear that. It is my own fault and now it is my woe.”
This heart-wrenching story, like the Guardian had pointed out, is a remarkable indictment on the 1950s Ireland as well as the 1980s America. Michael Hiss had to live and endure during an era serving a political party that disliked his peers, though less so today, is remarkably patriotic. Ironically, it is Andrew Sullivan, a self-identified political conservative, who first published his argument for gay marriage in the pages of the New Republic in 1989. It is only recently that a majority of Americans support same-sex marriage across 50 states. As recent as 2004, a significant majority (62%) of Americans were against same-sex marriage. Today, the President of the U.S. had come out openly in support of gay marriage. Support for marriage is at historic high for millennials. Rob Portman, Mark Kirk, and Lisa Murkowski are current GOP senators supporting the cause. Ken Melhman, former chair of Republican National Committee, has advocated in public and Wall Street Journal on this issue. Jon Huntsman, former governor of Utah, and dozens of former senior officials in Republican administrations, have signed onto a brief supporting same-sex marriage in the Supreme Court cases last June. Republican House Speaker John Boehner recently said that the Party should openly support gay candidates. The times have changed. If only Michael/Anthony were alive today…
For Philomena though, “If only I’d mentioned it all those years ago. Oh Lord, it makes my heart ache.” What’s so remarkable about her journey with Martin Sixsmith as portrayed through the film is her humorous and light-hearted touch on the otherwise dense, somber context. It’s almost if Martin has personified Anthony in real life, whose ardent search for Anthony, initially stemmed from a personal motive for a journalist comeback, resulted in much needed emotional companionship for Philomena. [SPOILER ALERT] However, even Martin’s seeming ascension into a place of moral superiority is vastly dwarfed by Philomena’s higher forgiveness of Sister Hildegrad who buried the truth of the mutual mother-son search from her for decades. The dynamic duo as so ingeniously portrayed by Steven Frears (director of The Queen) left the audience still wondering near the end: is this movie a comedy or a tragedy? I think it is safe to say that the movie incorporates elements of both in order to shed light on a horrific practice symbolized by greed, misplaced moral authority, doctrinaire dogmatism, and loss of humanity through misguided faith. However, even after what Philomena had suffered and endured, the Times reports that she is going back to church again because “she finds it a peaceful place.” Perhaps this is a story that offers hope in humanity by suggesting that closures can be found, but it requires faith, humor, and perseverance. A very well-done film that challenges our own moral compass.